BangleBox_530d, on Dec 24 2005, 09:12 PM, said:
Merry Christmas everyone.
I received a PM today, which I think is a bit bizarre.
Hi BangleBox_530d, ever since I sent the PM to each one of you I have been waiting for the "how dare you" messages. Yours is the first, and I commend you for your very civilized way to let me know your displeasure. I didn't mean to offend you. That aside, I chose to send a private message because I felt my note to you guys was strong and I didn't want to discourage new readers to the forum by posting it for eveyone to see - just for those of you who had signed up for the meet.
Doing all the coordination is really not that hard (just time consuming) and I'm doing it because I think we'll have a blast. It will be a great chance to meet, check out each others’ cars, meet families, then talk to BMW engineers and visit some beautiful places together. I'm sure many friendships will be born on this trip.
Now, what I want you all to understand is that the REALLY HARD part is making decisions for people I have never met, and making monetary and attendance commitments based on assumptions. There's an old saying that if you assume something, you risk making an ass of you and me (ass u me).
I said in my PM to you all I know everyone is busy and understand I am as well, but I think you owe it to the group to check in at least weekly and provide input. I don't intend to tell you what to do my friend, but realize that I will have to make decisions on your behalf if you don't pipe in, and I don't want that to come and bite my ass later.
My worst nightmare about this trip is having people tell me "I never agreed to this...” or "I don't like this hotel..." or "I'm not going to pay for that since nobody asked me..." and there being a bill for something that no one is responsible for. I certainly am not going to get stuck with it. Do you see my point?
Please, all of you make it a point to visit THIS forum at least weekly. We are at the "making reservations" phase. We're done with the "maybe we could meet somewhere..." phase. But for this meet to be a reality I will have to ask you all questions from time to time. I need answers. I DO NOT want to decide for the group. I do not feel I'm "in charge" of this. I'm a member of the forum just like you and all the others - but I am in a better position than most because I already have contacts at the factory and that's what gave me the idea for this meet. Maybe it'll become a yearly event at a different place every year? Look at the possibilities. I hear Trieste is a beautiful city with a fantastic coastline...Any SCUBA divers in ths group??
So, again, it wasn't my intention to offend you. My intention was to get your attention so you'll understand that I need your help if we're going to pull this off. I can't do it alone.
Regarding your question about a "fee". There will not be a fee for anything. Obviously we'll have to pay for rooms and if we desire anything catered and such we'll have to split the cost, but there's not a fee per se for the pleasure of coming together. I will post activities and costs if any come to light and you all can tell me if you'd like to participate - like the tour to Landshut from the hotel.
Best Regards, and wishes for a wonderful Christmas and a healthy and prosperous new year.
Santiago.
PS - I'd be happy to PM each of you eveytime I need something so you know what's going on, but PM-ing a large group is very time consuming. This is not like regular e-mail. If any of you know a way to "send PM to group" let me know or I'll have to rely on you checking the forum often.
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